Philosopher Alain Badiou on How We Fall and Stay in Love

Love cannot be reduced to the first encounter, because it is a construction. The enigma in thinking about love is the duration of time necessary for it to flourish. In fact, it isn’t the ecstasy of those beginnings that is remarkable. The latter are clearly ecstatic, but love is above all a construction that lasts. We could say that love is a tenacious adventure. The adventurous side is necessary, but equally so is the need for tenacity. To give up at the first hurdle, the first serious disagreement, the first quarrel, is only to distort love. Real love is one that triumphs lastingly, sometimes painfully, over the hurdles erected by time, space and the world.

https://www.brainpickings.org/2015/10/26/alain-badiou-in-praise-of-love/?utm_source=Brain+Pickings&utm_campaign=713bfece18-EMAIL_CAMPAIGN_2017_06_01&utm_medium=email&utm_term=0_179ffa2629-713bfece18-236986565&mc_cid=713bfece18&mc_eid=c1cf253ef7

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